Category: Everyday (Page 4 of 5)

Escarlatina

The kids have had several mild illnesses.  An odd fever here, frequent running noses, Impetigo, vomit, some headaches but now Lavender has a full-body rash.  The internet is quite valuable.  Especially when you are in this odd void for health insurance (the kids & Jeff have it through BlueCross but the nearest clinic where we can use our insurance is a two-hour bus ride away).  There is the standard health clinic in our town (I can see it from our house) but it is also the Spanish-run healthcare clinic and not a private clinic.  And since we are not actually employed in Spain – another odd void – the availability to use the clinic is vague.  They’ll definitely treat the kids and definitely treat the adults in a true emergency but it was very unclear if we’d get a bill or be asked to pay on the spot.  We were told maybe they will charge you, maybe not.  Okay.  Coming from the U.S. where a simple doctor’s visit without insurance (hell, even with insurance) can be quite costly, especially a walk-in urgent care visit I decided to use the internet to fill the void of a doctor.  Not always the best but who doesn’t diagnose themselves first?  I diagnosed the Imeptigo that Scarlett got at the beginning of November.  I even managed to get an antibiotic cream from the pharmacy.  And with vigilant treatment, Scarlett’s impetigo went away in three days.  So when Lavender started showing signs of impetigo (which is essentially the same bacteria as strep throat but as a crusty, blistering rash near the moth & nose) I was on it.  She got a very small rash; unlike her sister Scarlett.  The impetigo went away but unfortunately she then developed a fever and broke out in a rash over her entire torso.  Which I of course noticed only after she came home from school.  I swear, I don’t purposely send my kids to school with contagious illnesses.

I searched on the internet.  I read up on rashes.  I compared pictures.  And I diagnosed it as Scarlet Fever.  (Scarlet fever most often follows strep-throat but it can also follow impetigo – since it’s the same bacteria).  And try as I might, I found not one reliable source (Hello! WebMD & Mayo Clinic) that said I could treat it with at home remedies.  Not one.  Antibiotics were the answer.  Oral.  The kind I had already tried to buy over the counter but couldn’t.  We waited one night to make sure it wasn’t just an allergic reaction to new laundry detergent.  Her fever returned and her rash looked angrier the next morning.  Do we take her by bus to an in-network provider or do we walk 3 minutes to the health clinic and take our chances with both the cost and the language barrier?  I figured the health clinic in town couldn’t possibly charge more than our own deductible we’d have to meet back in Washington for a similar visit.    So off to the clinic I went.

I could almost here the staff’s (a doctor/nurse and the assistant) exasperation when they realized how very little Spanish I spoke.  I had taken the care to use google translate and write down all of her symptoms – in Spanish and in chronological order before heading off.  But, I couldn’t answer many of their questions.  I immediately went to my ‘ol standby “Mi casa en Buitrago. Mi esposo a Gredos. La nina quatro anos.”  They just shook their heads when I pointed to my “Americano trajeta” when they asked to see my spanish health care card.  They wrote down Lavender’s name in a ledger.  They examined her.  They felt the rash.  They took her temperature.  They weighed her when I couldn’t tell them how much she weighed.  They wrote up a summary while we sat across from the doctors desk.  They also started speaking English near the end when they realized I wasn’t faking my horrible understanding of the Spanish language.  I managed to ask “Lunes? Casa o Escolar?”  So in broken spanish that’s: Monday? Home? or School?  Home was the answer.  Actually I was told to visit her doctor on Monday for a recheck of her rash.  Hhmm?? Her doctor?  I pointed upstairs and questionedly shrugged.  (The urgent care clinic was downstairs and the regular office upstairs).  I may or may not return for a recheck.  At one point, Lavender leaned over and said “This isn’t like the doctor’s in Washington.”  No, it was not.  We sat in more of an office type room.  They never took down my name.  Or our address.  Or our phone number.  Or my passport number (which by the way is needed for everything!  Even to sign up for gymnastics!).  But we got the visit summary which included the prescription for oral antibiotics.  Yeah!  And the cost of the antibiotics?  2.30 euros.  However, it was also a glass bottle with powdered antibiotics that came with instructions in Spanish on how to prepare our own drugs.  Jeff used the internet to google the instructions.  Thank you internet, again!

10 Mbps

What an exciting night!  We finally! got internet at home.  I had been expecting a call all day to schedule the installation but instead I received a call asking if I was home because the technician could be there in 5 minutes.  Yup.  We’re home.  And please, please come by.  October could not contain herself as she has been desperately wanting to play some games on her tablet that needed an internet connection to update. I was excited to not have to sit in the freezing cold commons of Jeff’s school to post blogs, surf facebook or work on my Spanish language lessons.  Jeff was excited to get on and watch some American tv and make updates to his online game as well.  We immediately tried out video calling on Viber and on Facebook.  Success!!  I figured out a paid-program that provides me with a work-around to be able to watch Netflix, NBC, Hulu, CBS, etc.  Once the internet was installed, there was nothing else happening.  No dinner.  No american homework.  No cleaning.  The kids ate whatever leftovers we had, October made herself an egg, Lavender had cold cereal and Scarlett had cheese and crackers.  I caught up on all the episodes of Parenthood – which took until 2am and then we turned on House and watched until we fell asleep on the couch.

Besides being able to indulge in some serious couch surfing, I can now research where to travel, study my Spanish lessons, look up recipes, translate notes from school, catch up on the news back home, post blogs, find directions and most importantly chat with YOU!  We can video call easily through facebook or sign-up for Viber (our Washington phone numbers are our contact numbers for Viber).

Birthday Party

I wrote my phone number on a piece of paper, shoved it in October’s pocket, hastily told her how I thought she could ask in Spanish to use the phone and I left. If I followed Parents magazine advice I would have also asked if there were guns in the home. At least in the states. Not sure I they have the right to bear arms here.

I took October to her first birthday party here. I dropped her off at a home/restaurant with a family that spoke NO English. After we arrived and before I left, I had a fleeting urge to just smile, scoop October up (lets just pretend I can still lift her) and go home. But I didn’t and she had a great time. Free refills of coco-cola and night-time zombie chase made for a good party it seems.

I picked her up 2.5 hours later, had a beer with the host and a few other moms (half who were smoking) and stumbled through some not so awkward conversation on where we were from and how long we would be here. And October likely forgot 10 minutes into the party about the phone number tucked in her pocket.

Sick day

Some days of homeschooling were hard and others enjoyable.  Some were long and others flew by.  Teaching the kids all day then making dinner and heading off to work made the day very busy and long.  Yet now, here in Spain, I am not really sure where my days have gone to.  Maybe it the eight times a day I walk to school or the time consuming process of making three meals a day and all those dishes or the time I spend trying to translate school papers.  But just the same some days are long and drawn out and others quick and enjoyable.  On Tuesday October wasn’t feeling well and Scarlett had an ugly looking rash. They both slept from late afternoon on Monday so I kept them home on Tuesday. (Lavender went to school). While they rested some, we caught up on our American homework.  Lots of math and reading, a little writing.  We didn’t watch any movies, they played very little.  We really did lots of review and learning and with very little nagging or complaining.  We need to keep them on track with their American grade levels while we are here as well as having them be immersed in Spanish at school but the reality is we haven’t been as consistent as we need to be.  Tuesday was nice. Yes, I was smearing goop on Scarlett’s ugly rash every hour but I was also very much enjoying being home with (two of) my kids and enjoying teaching them.

Fall Traditions.

Thinking about and looking at photos of the fall traditions back home got me a little homesick yesterday. There aren’t really many of our traditional fall activities here.  No fields full of pumpkins.  No apple cider pressing or even apple cider to be had.  No halloween decorations in store windows.  I hadn’t even seen any pumpkins.  I decided to check out some eBooks from the library on Halloween — ones I would traditionally read to the kids.  Jeff came home early and we made a plan on how to keep on with some of our fall traditions.  We bought bags and bags of apples.  I don’t think making apple cider will go well but we’ll try apple crisp and maybe try some apple games or apple stamping art projects.  We bought craft supplies for the kids to make halloween decorations.  We found a Happy Halloween banner.  We bought some squash that we plan to carve like jack-o-lanterns.  I helped out after-school in Scarlett’s wing of the school to decorate the classroom doors with Halloween themes.  That was a lot of fun!  I showed off some pictures of the pumpkin fields to the teachers there (I can’t figure out how to print them easily .  And while I was gone, Jeff took the girls to the China store to buy the costume accessories and happened upon a great surprise!

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Kids decorations started

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The squash we bought to carve. I think I’ve chosen pumpkins this big.

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And for the surprise!  Jeff and the girls went to the Fruiteria and found!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Horseback Riding

We did a lot this weekend.  I tried my hand at attending tennis lessons — in Spanish.  It was a lot of fun!  I enjoyed being active and out.  Jeff signed me up through the instructor who also works at Jeff’s school; and somehow managed to let him know I needed a racket and was told I pay $10 euro per lesson.  About half way through, as I fumbled along trying to understand the drill one of the other three women says to me “You have to switch sides.” In perfect English.  I was so happy to find that someone spoke English and hopeful maybe I’ll find some folks to practice my Spanish with – over wine of course.

We took the girls Horseback riding.  I booked the rides online but it was completely unclear when we should show up.  I sent an email, in English, and never heard back so we headed out on Saturday hopeful it would work out.  After several attempts to convey that we hoped Jeff & October could go on a trail ride while the other two just rode around the property the owner/receptionist got us speaking to her English speaking son and we were all set.  I am not a horse person.  I had no intention of riding.  I certainly had no intention of leading a horse around in a circle for an hour while I gave Scarlett & Lavender turns on the horse.  But that is what I did in the blazing hot sun in my sandals.  Lavender had a blast.  Scarlett wanted to go on a trail ride like her sister.  October & Jeff headed off with little instruction for a trail ride.  They had just left the property when I saw October on her horse with her horse walking her back to the stables with the trail guide running down the road behind her.  I was concerned.  And I later learned so was Jeff.  But the guide got them all straightened out and off they went.  October had a great time!  She kept exclaiming how she never thought she’d ever ride a horse without someone holding it!  We’ll be returning, well at least Jeff & October will be returning for trail rides later in the year (Scarlett & Lavender are too little) as it was really reasonably priced at 15 euros per horse.

We also went to Madrid.  To which I brought my nice DSLR camera only to realize once I arrived that I failed to put the photo card back into the camera.  Argh!  I did have my phone and Jeff his so I’ll get those pictures up in another blog.

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You can’t see it but she also has her cowboy boots on.

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October is on the white horse. This is as they are first leaving the stables.

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Here’s October and her horse as her horse starts turning around to go back to the stables.

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October returning with a big grin and a thumbs up!

More pictures can be found at our online family photo album .  I was getting some unwanted spam and since I upload all of our family pictures here, it is password protected.  If you don’t know the password, email me 🙂

 

Laundry

Just for fun, here’s our washing machine and the “dryer”:

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Washing machine in the kitchen.

 

IMG_1267What I’ve learned is that I bought laundry soap designed for hand washing and if I’d like to not put on cardboard socks or dry myself with a cardboard towel, I also need to figure out fabric softener.

 

China Bazar

It’s like the dollar store on crack.  Every cheap item you have ever seen at either the dollar store, the $1 bins at Target, McDonalds, Value Village and then some can be found at the China Bazaar.   I bought the store out of hangers when we moved in.  There was no way I was   October bought herself and Scarlett spinning top toys.  She also bought Lavender a baby stroller — she said it’s a “waiting” present.  Something to tide her over until her birthday, in May. Guess she forgot about jolly ‘ol Saint Nick.

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Inside 1 aisle of China Bazaar. There are 4 aisles that look exactly like this!

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The baby stroller that October bought Lavender.

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The street our deck faces. You can see China Bazaar there on the left. That’s out living room right above it and our balcony to the right above the white van.

Drinks

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Buitrago del Lozoya

It’s a different experience having the kids sit at the bar with you (the guy behind us has a kid in a stroller). Most of the time, we sit in the bar and they run around in the street until some food comes that they might try and we summon them in.  It’s really cute when the girls order their own waters in Spanish.  And even nicer that the bartender serves tap water in a glass rather than a bottle of water we must purchase!

Food

When I went from working days to working in the evenings, I thought the hardest thing to get used to was always thinking about food.  What I was going to make, when I was going to make it, who would be eating.  Here, by far the language barrier is the hardest part of being in Spain but making food comes in a very close second.  The packages are not in English.  Most of the pictures I can decipher but not all.  But the thing is, even if I knew what the food was, I am having a hard time figuring out what to DO with it.  And when I DO figure out what to do with it, the kids don’t like it and are asking me several times a day for a snack.  Usually, before the meal dishes are even cleaned up.  Which, by the way, makes me come unglued!

During my first few visits to the stores I was surprised at how few healthy food options there were.  And I’m not a health nut, not by any means, but I found a lot of doughnuts, chocolate covered graham crackers, cured meats, cold cereal, etc.  I was looking for dried fruit, whole wheat bread, oatmeal, pasta.  But what I’ve come to realize is that the food here doesn’t tell me what it could be.  There is no box of pancake mix announcing “I am pancake mix!”  Instead I need to buy the ingredients to make pancakes.  There is no hummus – I need to buy the beans and try to make my own.  There is not a can of Alfredo sauce announcing itself, I need to make it. I did find the pasta though! I still haven’t found any vanilla or baking soda to make chocolate chip cookies; which then I would need to figure out measurements and visit the China store for measuring cups/spoons anyways.  The girls have tried nearly every kind of yogurt I have run across; a few have been well received.  And I like the fresh fish market on our street — although the shop keepers have no interest in playing charades with me so making purchases is a bit frustrating.  Maybe soon, when we get the internet I will have a better chance at making more diverse meal plans.

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The “super” market that I frequent. And has a very nice wine priced at $1.66!

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